Summary of Stumbling on Happiness
Copyright © 2006 by Daniel Gilbert
Used by arrangement with Alfred A. Knopf, a division of Random House, Inc.
So often you are your own worst enemy when you plan for the future. You're not alone; it's the human condition.
You, like most people, have probably made poor decisions regarding the future. For proof of human folly, you have only to look at the large number of divorces, jobs walked away from, failed start-up businesses and attics filled with junk someone "had to buy." Families regret their goofy vacations – then take the same awful trips the following year. And the observers who ask, "What could they possibly have been thinking?" make the same sorts of mistakes in their own lives. As a Yiddish proverb says, "Mann tracht und Gott lacht" – "Man plans and God laughs." So what's going on? Why are people such poor prognosticators? Psychologist Daniel Gilbert explains, with great wit, that the human imagination, along with the other cognitive abilities people use to forecast happiness, are fatally flawed. Based on extensive psychological research, his book posits that, regarding life's future milestones, most people would do better asking someone else what to do rather than making their own decisions. getAbstract recommends this book to managers responsible for planning strategy and tactics, and to anyone else who wonders why he or she so often gets it totally wrong.
In this summary, you will learn
- Why people have such a difficult time planning for their future happiness
- How perception, imagination, memory and the brain's cognitive faculties often play tricks on you as you try to decide what will make you happy
- Why asking the advice of someone with experience may be the best way to make a choice; and
- Why most people don't do this.