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Don’t Compare Yourself to Others
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Don’t Compare Yourself to Others


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7

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  • Applicable
  • For Beginners

Recommendation

Laozi, a 6th-century BC Chinese philosopher, remarked that “When you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare or compete, everybody will respect you.” This ancient wisdom is just as applicable today as it was during China’s Zhou Dynasty. Alas, comparing oneself with others is a brutal human foible. In this brief video, American stand-up comedian Tom Shillue revisits Laozi’s message in a folksy yet vivid fashion. Although his argument covers well-trodden ground, his lesson is one that bears repeating. getAbstract recommends Shillue’s idea to anyone whose green-eyed monster is making life a misery.

Take-Aways

  • People often compare their lives and careers with those of others, which can lead to deep personal unhappiness.
  • Measuring yourself against others establishes unrealistic standards for success.
  • Envying just one aspect of someone’s life – such as wealth or talent – out of context isn’t realistic. Everyone’s life is a complex whole, and everyone suffers from pain.

About the Speaker

Tom Shillue is an American stand-up comedian. He hosts Red Eye, a late-night talk show on the Fox News Channel.


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