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The Last Self-Help Book You'll Ever Need
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The Last Self-Help Book You'll Ever Need

Repress Your Anger, Think Negatively, Be a Good Blamer, and Throttle Your Inner Child

Basic Books, 2005 more...


Editorial Rating

8

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Recommendation

Fat? Unhappy? Looking for love? With 20,000 plus self-help titles on the shelves, people are still overweight, suicidal and unfulfilled. Neuropsychologist Paul Pearsall debunks the promises of the self-help genre. He exhorts you to treat it skeptically, being mindfully aware of whether its counsel fits your life. This is probably not the "last self-help book you’ll ever need;" it’s certainly not the last self-help book Dr. Pearsall is likely to write (and he writes well, so that’s fine). However, it will make you think and help you gain perspective on "self-helpism." Quit obsessing about the future and what you don’t have. Seize the moment. A life well-lived must, in fact, be authentically lived, not just contemplated. getAbstract advocates Pearsall’s contrary point of view as the antidote to way too much positive thinking.

Take-Aways

  • Always "thinking positively" about tomorrow robs you of fully experiencing today.
  • Trying to have only happy thoughts limits your creative and critical thinking ability.
  • "Mindful awareness," rather than positive thinking, is the key to savoring life.

About the Author

Neuropsychologist Dr. Paul Pearsall speaks widely on psychological issues and has written other self-help books including The Pleasure Prescription and The Beethoven Factor.


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    M. P. 11 months ago
    IT IS VERY GOOD FOR SOMEONE LIKE ME THIS BOOK
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    S. G. 6 years ago
    I read this book minutes after reading a sacred cow self help book and then positively commenting on it.

    A lot of teachings in this summary contradicts what I read in most self help books and yet the author gives a good plausible defense for what he writes.

    I recommend this opposite side of the coin summary to be read right after reading a traditional self help summary.

    The $100,000 take away I got from reading this is rather than thinking positive, think with full awareness.
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    K. M. 8 years ago
    No one could have said better than this