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How to Start a Conversation and Make Friends
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How to Start a Conversation and Make Friends

Fireside, 2001
First Edition: 1983 更多详情


Editorial Rating

8

Recommendation

The easiest way to get to know people is through conversation. Don Gabor outlines the basics of engaging in conversation, and provides tips and techniques to help you overcome initial shyness, ease your way into good conversations and, thereby enhance your business and social life. He applies plenty of practical troubleshooting advice to many typical conversational scenarios, and points out some potential roadblocks that can impede good conversation. Before you even open your mouth, you need to become aware of your body language and that of others. Gabor suggests ways to build up your sensitivity to nonverbal communication so you can apply various conversational techniques, such as “active listening” and scoping for “hot button” topics to start, build up and maintain a dialogue. getAbstract recommends this primer as a quick boost to help you reach out and connect with people in all settings.

Take-Aways

  • Your body language reveals whether you want to talk or not.
  • Fearing rejection is natural, but most people are friendly, so when you make the first move and introduce yourself, you are taking only a slight risk.
  • When you talk to someone, be receptive, maintain eye contact and smile. Don’t cross your arms because that looks self-protective.

About the Author

Don Gabor is a communications expert who has written several self-help books, including Talking with Confidence for the Painfully Shy and Speaking Your Mind in 101 Difficult Situations.


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